This morning, breakfast in the cafeteria usual, about 8.30 o'clock in the morning today at 9.00 pm because I had an appointment, which I usually do an hour later, I read in the newspaper article the next 20 minutes http://www.20minutos.es/noticia/379606/l/ # cmnts .
point Then I went to my interview, Mr. XXX I gave notice to the afternoon from 17.00 h to 17.30 h. (A margin of half an hour between first and second call) Anyway, at 17.15 h introduced myself, and I waited until 17.50 h, ie 35 minutes after the first call and 20 minutes into the second. I felt more by the plight of the receptionist that for me. For the third time I left my card and left. These are the hours that have not been called to excuse non-attendance.
Mr. XXX is a man about 45 years, co-owner of a chain of luxury hotels, dressed in dark blue suit jacket immaculate, shirt with cufflinks, tie, polished shoes with matching belt , skipping the most basic rules protolo.
Clearly this can be amended between the young people who still have time, but to a lord or lady who has gray hair, it gets more difficult.
There is an article http://www.lavanguardia.es/lv24h2007/20080510/53462383044.html which explains that sometimes can not even do so for lack of respect, which is how I perceive . "Common sense does not work because there are many common ways to implement different," says Salvador Cardus, Professor of Sociology at the Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona (UAB), notes that we have gone from a uniform society, with a clear hierarchy who was the ruling class to another company with the hierarchy blurred, with social groups of very different origin, and that has complicated the system of conventions to communicate respect.
I personally believe that social classes are more defined than ever, just that many do not know. It is likely that if Mr XXX had known that I am a daughter, niece or cousin of Mr. YYY at least have picked up a phone, which at this hour unless it is something serious, I hope tomorrow is not the case and should retract, call the receptionist and to avoid unnecessary I had a feeling and an impression on him and what he represented avoidable, but it was not so. So I think that as Chamfort said "In the big things men should be shown as they appear and small as they are."
The paraphrased in a previous post, I am convinced of its merits and I like its shape.
The protocol and good manners are actually a form appropriate to a fund of raw material there is nothing, therefore, should not and can go out of style forms that express a fund, if that happens and is the approach taken raises not only be something to be discussed in workshops, but something much deeper than is brewing in the family.
Image Personal, Professional or Corporate ideal is having a unique costume protocol and good manners, keeping atemproral, without a word and concept to be stale and hackneyed, but as always present (a paradox).
I am reminded of a situation that happened with me Mr. I want and I can not (hereinafter Mr. Qynop) through a company office.
happened that mutual friends invite us to a wedding on September 3 two years ago in Dos Hermanas (Sevilla) at 18:00 hours in the afternoon. Could be about 40 º C at some of the men who were in our group opted for pants and shirt and jacket and tie declined. At this point the image consultants may have different views supported, mine is that circumstances could justify the view how were the heat and its consequences, wearing the suit included Mr. Qynop who also is important corpulence which made further charged heat.
This would have greater importance if it is because in a working lunch, brought up the lack of good taste in dress that showed those who did not dress in suits and ties, identifying them by name in a act outside the workplace, in the realm of the personal. At that time his suit ..... and Mark Bu, tie, cufflinks, Italian shoes, etc. were not sufficient to give good taste and good manners that is predictable given his age will never say.
There is clearly a problem and that a good way to start is that the protocol classes are given at school. but tell young people, it's not that they lack good manners, is that his predecessors had not, and should learn in workshops so they can teach and Gentlemen Gentlemen XXX Qynop and give them a masterclass in job interview, you may not be able to appreciate and value through ignorance or ignorance.
As I said, if there are class differences, but do not know the parameters measured wrong.
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